What does “House & Hook” mean?

“Villa” means HOUSE in Italian. “Haak” means HOOK in Dutch. It’s a direct translation of “Villa & Haak” (that’s us!).

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Hi! I’m Allison Villa.

Keepin’ it real, since 1980.

Mama. Wife. Psychotherapist. Visionary of the family. Recovering perfectionist. Retired singer-dancer. Lover of sunshine, movement, and fresh food.

I’m here to teach you how to have a thriving romantic relationship post-kids.

Professionally, I’ve guided other couples through this chapter. I’m the content curator of the H & H blog, programs & courses.

Personally, I’m living proof that it’s possible.

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Hey! I’m Arjan Haak.

Figurin’ it out, since 1971.

Dad. Husband. Graphic designer. Grounding force of the family. Proud Dutchman. Guilty of cracking Dad-jokes. Avid cyclist: road, cross, mountain...you name it, I’ll try it. Lover of indie music, movement, and fresh food.

I’m here to normalize the challenges that every couple faces after having kids.

Professionally, you’ll see my design and branding throughout H & H.

Personally, my life improved 150% by making our relationship the priority (a win for the whole family) & letting go of the “shoulds”.

Here’s the full story of how we went from surviving to thriving as a couple, and how you can, too.

If you…

  • Feel like the daily grind is wearing on you, but don’t know how to make changes

  • Love your kids like crazy, but have lost your sense of self in parenthood

  • Love your partner, but feel disconnected since having kids

…you’re NOT alone!

Get started now with these tools & start feeling connected to your partner and living your most intentional life.